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Tell-Tale Signs of An Eating
Disorder
Although professionals can easily detect a sign of eating
disorder, for the average person, and especially for parents of
teenagers, these signs are not so obvious. Even though they are
not obvious, and perhaps because they are not obvious, it is
very important that they be noticed. Signs pointing to an
eating disorder do not always indicate that the person in
question is living with an eating disorder.
Signs of problems should be carefully investigated before a
dialogue is opened, as most teenagers will take the approach of
the subject as a reason to flee from the conversation. If
you’ve done a lot of observing and you are certain that an
eating disorder is part of the problem, you should persist in
having that conversation.
If you have not yet carefully evaluated the facts, opening the
conversation can be a mistake because then the person in
question will most likely modify their behavior to ‘prove’ to
you that there is no problem. Usually this doesn’t involve
changing habits; usually it involves hiding a sign of eating
disorders more thoroughly.
What to Look Out For
An early sign of eating disorder would generally have less to
do with behavior with food than behavior towards food. For most
teenage girls, the first step toward developing an eating
disorder is a poor attitude toward food in general. If your
child is embarrassed to eat in front of other people, for
instance, or embarrassed to eat certain foods (ice cream,
pizza, and other notably fattening things) in front of people
outside your family, you should open a dialogue about attitudes
toward food.
Developing a healthy attitude toward food throughout childhood
is important; the most important is nurturing it through the
difficult years of adolescence. New views on food and eating
are certain to develop during adolescence, but these changes
should not be too prevalent. An extreme change in attitudes
toward food is one of the first sign of eating disorder.
As an eating disorder develops, the signs of it change. Many
young people progress from this negative attitude toward food
and eating to an ambivalent attitude toward food and eating.
Nothing gets a reaction in this stage because food is alien.
This can often be a sign of eating disorder. At this stage,
anorexic people tend to ignore food entirely, leaving a room
where food is being served and avoiding the topic entirely.
Bulimic people tend to act a little bit like anorexic people in
public, and then go home and pig out.
In addition to attitudes toward food, you should watch for
extreme changes in weight and extreme changes in energy levels
and tiredness. Anorexics tend to show a lot of physical signs
of their illness, including dark circles under the eyes, poor
skin tone, poor hair luster or even loss of hair, yellowing of
nails and general sickliness. Since they don’t get vitamins
through eating, their immune systems become weak. Another
telltale sign of eating disorder is fainting. Be on the
lookout, but treat the subject like the delicate one that it is
when bringing it up in
conversation.
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