The Danger Posed By Pro-Ana Sites
For anorexics or bulimics who are recovering, there exists an additional
temptation: pro-anorexic (or pro-ana) websites. These are sites in which anorexia or bulimia are promoted as
actual lifestyles rather than unhealthy medical conditions. Many of the members are teenage females, though
occasionally there are males as well as older people who join.
Typical conversation in a pro-ana forum will focus on how members can lose more
weight. Rarely are members actually overweight, though many will think they are. For example, in one
pro-ana forum, a member who was 5'3 and 123 pounds thought her weight was 'gross.' But in actuality, she was
100% healthy, at least according to the BMI which puts her at 21.8.
Yet, this matters little to most pro-ana members, who judge themselves according
to the latest celebrities who even the media criticizes as being too thin. In fact, many pro-ana sites are
littered with pictures showcasing these types of celebrities. Members may also post their pics when they feel
they've attained the perfect body. And for them the perfect body is one of skeletal proportions. They
may also even find pride in the lanugo that grows on their body during the course of their
illness.
To make matters worse, some pro-ana webmasters market their sites as being
communities for anorexic or bulimic networking, making some think they are designed to help individuals recover
from their illness. Very few are. Some may make the distinction by providing a disclaimer on their
site. On this disclaimer they notify the person of their true intention and may even warn them against
visiting if they are trying to recover for real. Others will offer no distinction. And although the
recovering anorexic or bulimic will quickly see the difference once they visit the site, they may be too entranced
with the messages to click away.
So, what can loved ones do to prevent an eating disorder sufferer from being
tempted by these types of sites? They could try getting Internet filtering software that would restrict the
person from assessing those sites, though there are ways to get around this, particularly if one is
computer-savvy. This leaves only one other option… completely restricting the eating disorder sufferer's
access to the Internet, at least until a person is strong enough to resist their influence.
Of course, if an eating disorder sufferer is out on their own, loved ones will not
be able restrict their access to these types of sites. So, what can one do then? The best option is
discussing with the person why these sites are dangerous.
They need to show how juvenile the mindsets are among the individuals
participating, along with how the type of body being promoted is not only unhealthy, but generally not attractive
even for individuals claiming to like 'thin.' Most people do not want to see bones on a prospective
mate. In fact, even Hollywood doesn't like that look, as there is no shortage of news reports of the modeling
and acting industry poking fun at those deemed to be too skinny.
Granted, much more work needs to be done, because the industry is 1,000 times more
demeaning to those they deem as being 'fat', but it still doesn't hurt to point out that they do criticize people
who are too thin. Either way, discussions about pro-ana sites need to be done both personally and through
family sessions with the anorexic's or bulimic's psychologist/psychiatrist.
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